Quick Answer
Parenting as a virtual assistant is not always the “work from the sofa while the baby naps” dream Instagram promised.
The Myth vs. The Reality
When I first became a VA, people assumed it was the perfect job for parents. Flexible hours, working from home, no commuting… What could go wrong?
Well, let’s just say Zoom calls and snack negotiations don’t always mix.
Why It Works (Most of the Time)
🌟 Flexibility: You can schedule client work around school runs, sports day, or that last-minute costume request for World Book Day.
🚗 No commute stress: You’re already at HQ (aka the kitchen table).
🎯 You’re in control: You can choose which clients to work with and how much capacity you have.
The Challenges No One Talks About
🚪 Disappearing boundaries: Kids don’t respect “client call” signs on the door.
😅 Mum/Dad guilt: Every time you say “just one more email”.
🤒 Overlapping chaos: Deadlines don’t wait for chickenpox season.
How to Actually Make It Work
🛑 Set non-negotiables: Block off school pick-up, bedtime, or family meals.
💬 Be honest with clients: Most appreciate that you’re human (and probably juggling too).
⚙️ Embrace tech: Calendar blocks, automations, and email filters are lifesavers.
🏆 Redefine success: Some days, sending two invoices and making it to the playground is a win.
💡 VA Insight: Being a parent and a VA isn’t about finding perfect balance. It’s about building a business that bends when life throws Lego under your feet.